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Finding Fulfillment in Sales and Business Development

April 14, 20253 min read

In the fast-paced world of sales and business development, it can feel like we are riding full speed in a race car. More often than not, this can lead to becoming burned out, then stuck, with an inability to achieve the goals and results we want. Finding peace of mind amidst stress and pressure can become a challenge. I have been in this place and maybe you have, too? However, achieving a sense of enjoyment in the work we do and daily satisfaction doesn't just accelerate success but also ensures longevity and resilience in our career.

As I reflect on my sales career and the work I do today, these are some of the keys I follow to keep a spark and sizzle in sales and business development:

Know Your Why: Identifying your underlying motivation is crucial. Many of us get into sales because we want to help others. The products, services, or solutions we offer do just that. When your goals resonate with your personal values, every sale transforms into a step towards a more significant purpose, which nurtures both passion and perseverance.

Quit Taking It Personally (QTIP): Rejection is an inevitable part of sales. The key is to embrace it as a learning opportunity rather than a personal affront. Understanding that sales is a numbers game allows you to detach emotionally, focusing instead on improving your approach.

Focus on Conversations: Shift your emphasis from making a sale to building relationships. Engaging authentically leads to meaningful connections and paves the way for genuine business opportunities. Celebrating every interaction as a win, regardless of the outcome, cultivates a positive mindset.

Celebrate All Wins: Recognizing even the smallest victories keeps morale high and maintains momentum. By celebrating progress, you reinforce positivity and motivation among your team and yourself.

Treat Others Well: Nurturing relationships through respect and integrity builds a reputation as someone others want to do business with. This creates an environment of trust and collaboration, essential for long-term success.

Activity = Results: Sales and business development is not a spectator sport. It takes daily activity to succeed. I advise spending 1/3 of our weekly time divided in these 3 areas: prospecting/business development, servicing current clients, and managing current/active opportunities

Avoid Burnout: Setting clear boundaries between work and personal life is crucial. Prioritize self-care to recharge and maintain productivity and creativity in your professional endeavors.

Invest in Yourself: Investing in yourself, your learning, and your skills is the best investment you will ever make. If your employer does not offer opportunities for professional development, do what I do: attend workshops, seminars, read books, join masterminds - learners are earners.

Biggest Mistakes to Avoid: Some of the biggest mistakes I have made in my sales career, and mistakes I often see others make are: lack of consistency; destructive habits, such as procrastination can stall success. Lack of planning: taking an approach to focus on daily, weekly, and monthly planning helps us work smarter vs. harder. Lack of accountability and blame: there will always be setbacks in sales and business development. How you handle challenge is everything and being able to be honest about what we can do better next time is valuable. There is no such thing as mistakes, only lessons learned in the world of sales and business development. Many professionals overlook the importance of aligning personal values with professional goals. Others neglect the need for self-care or fail to adapt by taking rejection personally.

By addressing these areas, fulfillment becomes, and will always be a natural part of your professional journey.

Amy Lemire CSP DTM works with success-driven leaders and teams who want to be more, make more, and sell more with confidence, with momentum.  She is the creator of “The Best Version of You: Success Habits Breakthrough” Program. For the past 10 years, she has trained thousands of sales and business professionals on standards of excellence, and mastery of the keys to success and the ‘Sales Confidence Code.’ Her focus is on how to win the inner game of self-confidence to drive peak performance results in sales, business, and speaking, through the mastery of success habits. 

After spending 2 decades in business-to-business and medical sales and training, Amy founded AIM Training and Consulting International. She is a certified “Habitfinder” Leadership Coach. Amy is the author of 2 books: “From Zero to Sales Hero,” and “From Zero to Speaker Hero.” 

Amy was recently designated as a Certified Speaking Professional, in March 2023, by the National Speakers Association, for delivering over 300 hours of training and speaking. She is also a VISTAGE-certified speaker. Amy is a Distinguished Toastmaster, the Past President of National Speakers Association, St Louis Chapter, and a Member of the National Speakers Association. She has been recognized as a Fortune 500 top sales performer and sales trainer for over 3 decades.  When she is not working you may find her at local rock concert, personal development seminar, or at home with her husband Nigel and her cat Brianna.

Amy Lemire CSP

Amy Lemire CSP DTM works with success-driven leaders and teams who want to be more, make more, and sell more with confidence, with momentum. She is the creator of “The Best Version of You: Success Habits Breakthrough” Program. For the past 10 years, she has trained thousands of sales and business professionals on standards of excellence, and mastery of the keys to success and the ‘Sales Confidence Code.’ Her focus is on how to win the inner game of self-confidence to drive peak performance results in sales, business, and speaking, through the mastery of success habits. After spending 2 decades in business-to-business and medical sales and training, Amy founded AIM Training and Consulting International. She is a certified “Habitfinder” Leadership Coach. Amy is the author of 2 books: “From Zero to Sales Hero,” and “From Zero to Speaker Hero.” Amy was recently designated as a Certified Speaking Professional, in March 2023, by the National Speakers Association, for delivering over 300 hours of training and speaking. She is also a VISTAGE-certified speaker. Amy is a Distinguished Toastmaster, the Past President of National Speakers Association, St Louis Chapter, and a Member of the National Speakers Association. She has been recognized as a Fortune 500 top sales performer and sales trainer for over 3 decades. When she is not working you may find her at local rock concert, personal development seminar, or at home with her husband Nigel and her cat Brianna.

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